“If one person doesn’t want the relationship, then it’s simply not a fit.
No sense trying to figure out why we think they don’t want it.
No sense blaming it on their commitment issues.
No sense waiting around for them to realize they wanted it after all.
Because it doesn’t matter why they don’t want it.
What matters is that we want to be met heart-on by a fully engaged partner.
If they don’t want it, then we don’t want it, because we don’t want to be with someone who is not there for it fully.
That’s the thing about love relationship – it’s an agreement that has to be signed by both souls. If one doesn’t sign, then nothing has been lost.
If it’s not a fit for them, it’s not a fit for us either.
On to the next adventure we go…”
(~an excerpt from Jeff Brown ‘An Uncommon Bond’ — thanks to a friend for sharing it on facebook)